A group of alumni, highly
established in their careers, got together to visit their old university
lecturer. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and
life.
Offering
his guests coffee, the lecturer went to the kitchen and returned with a
large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups: porcelain, plastic, glass,
some plain-looking and some expensive and exquisite, telling them to help
themselves to hot coffee.
When
all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the lecturer said: "If you
noticed, all the nice-looking, expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind
the plain and cheap ones. While it is but normal for you to want only the
best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. What
all
of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for
the better cups and are eyeing each other's cups."
"Now, if Life is coffee, then the
jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to
hold and contain Life, but the quality of Life doesn't change." "Sometimes,
by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to
enjoy the coffee in it. "So please, don't let the cups drive you...enjoy the
coffee instead. Being happy does not mean everything is perfect. It means
you have decided to see beyond the imperfections.
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